Relationship Ratio

[Gyrl7]

Originally posted by laidbackfella
Interesting perspectives but mathematically your lists need to be valid.

That would mean you could, in theory, only choose ten attributes.

If you choose to list yours on a scale of one to ten then you would have to account for the attributes that carry the same weight.

For instance if you have two attributes that share a rating of ten then the next number to show what is of importance next would be an eight. Because nine has been removed by virtue of the tie between the two tens. Just like when ranking teams.

I used mine as an example for you to follow but not the only guide.

If you flip the list in your ranking order then that would probably give us a better perspective but no insight into what you truly value from someone you CHOOSE to be in a relationship.

That's why I wanted y'all to step out on a limb and pick some of the attributes that YOU think are important and list their percentage. This will let us see what you value.

Cuz from my list you can see that I want an Attractive Woman, that is an intelligent, open communicator, with a sense of integrity that is mentally and emotionally stable.

Can your hear me now?

Well I guess, if I were able to find all that in a man I wouldn't be so happy being single. No pun intended.....

I'm still sticking with my scales......

I also agree with 1savvydiva's point on Motivation and Drive, while I don't find that sexy....LOL I think it is an important trait to have male or female. That's why I dumped my last boyfriend.......he had no ambition or motivation, but had a whole lot of envy for those who were ambitious and motivated to take charge of their lives.