Hello again everyone,
Even though I am not greek I feel I should say something to this matter. I feel that once you have your heart set on an organization that should be the organization you stick with even if it is impossible to go undergraduate. I personally feel that those who jump from organization to organization are only looking to be a part of something.
They may not be all that you think they are and might be more a disgrace to the organization while yet there may be a select few that represent that organization as if it was there first love.
I studied all the organizations and knew right off the back which one was the all or nothing pick. I feel that I shouldn't have to go intake as something else just because they aren't chartered at my campus yet.
Be a leader not a follower. I would question my own joining if I was to suddenly up and switch to any other organization. The question is 50 years from now will you still be proud to say that you are a "...". I'm willing to wait to go grad if nothing eventually happens.
But I do know of many who seek the next in line. That seems to be the daily ritual amongst a select few on my campus. For I will out of respect not mention the organizations they wanted to join and those they ended up or are now wanting to join.
I know everytime I look at them it's like how can they joan on this organization when it was first in there hearts. Or it's like they aren't even real they not a true ... they don't even wear letters and participate in the activities (yes I know many of them).
The more I look at it the more I use to question the sincerity of members of all organizations (fraternity and sorority). But during my quest I met many very very sincere members of there organizations and that was the sparkle that was put in my eye.
It was like before I studied the organizations I stereotyped them all from what I saw in each of the members that had simular characteristics (funny thing is I never could classify Sigma Gamma Rho I was always meeting someone who was different and had a completely different few as to why her organization was what she cherished.) But to get back on subject. That also answers a question that was posted earlier this week about why less people join organizations.
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