Ex-boyfriend resurfaces

alikat2 · #1 03-28-2004, 01:36 AM

So about 13 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up because I was too much of a partier. He just didn't trust me, so I dumped him even though I really cared a lot about him. We came close to getting back together last summer but didn't after I got distracted by another guy.....horribly stupid of me. But anyway, I saw his brother last week and told him to tell his bro to give me a call or an e-mail sometime, because I didn't mean for us to never speak again. Ever since then we've been talking and he's been so sweet and flirtatious.....and I thought I didn't have any more feelings for him, but I think I still do after all. It's so complicated.....what should I do? Should I try to become friends with him again and see where that takes us, or what? He was a great guy and for God's sake I just screwed it all up.

Any advice would be much appreciated.

I hope this all makes sense....I had a few too many beers and kamikazes tonight.

-Allison

Special1920 · #2 03-28-2004, 01:39 AM

MOVE ON!

damasa · #3 03-28-2004, 02:07 AM

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Originally posted by alikat2
So about 13 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up because I was too much of a partier. He just didn't trust me, so I dumped him even though I really cared a lot about him. We came close to getting back together last summer but didn't after I got distracted by another guy.....horribly stupid of me. But anyway, I saw his brother last week and told him to tell his bro to give me a call or an e-mail sometime, because I didn't mean for us to never speak again. Ever since then we've been talking and he's been so sweet and flirtatious.....and I thought I didn't have any more feelings for him, but I think I still do after all. It's so complicated.....what should I do? Should I try to become friends with him again and see where that takes us, or what? He was a great guy and for God's sake I just screwed it all up.

Any advice would be much appreciated.

I hope this all makes sense....I had a few too many beers and kamikazes tonight.

-Allison

duder, he only wants to smash.

ETA: If you messed it up the first time you shouldn't deserve to get back with this guy. I'm not being mean, I"m just being honest.

Oh, I don't want to hear anymore bickering about guys after this story! If you are dissing, shame on you!

"I'm just being honest, I'm just being honest."

alikat2 · #4 03-28-2004, 01:03 PM

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Originally posted by damasa

Oh, I don't want to hear anymore bickering about guys after this story! If you are dissing, shame on you!

What's so bad about this particular story?

James · #5 03-29-2004, 09:52 PM

"Use him, abuse him, make him write bad checks . . . and then kick him the hell out."

sigtau305 · #6 03-29-2004, 10:14 PM

You can try to start over and see where it leads to , but I say you should move on.

AKA_Monet · #7 03-29-2004, 10:25 PM

Be careful in the Playaz Pen...

You might get pizzzplayed yourself...

mattpike · #8 04-01-2004, 08:34 PM

try it again. just take it slow. dont try to get back full swing or anything. people change alot in 13 months, more than likely he will be a completely different guy. its just like dating anyone else. if yall broke it off and came back and still have feelings you may want to try it again. dont wake up in ten years unhappy where you are in life and wonder what it would have been like if yall would have given it another shot. some people miss out on a good thing because of pride or something stupid. good luck. just follow your heart.