I think you may have misunderstood what I was saying- when I said like a brother- I meant coming at someone with the same respect that you would want to have and not as an enemy i.e. talking bad to peeps, cussing @ them, placing threats on them... I've seen it done more than once. As far as having a life and so on, that's not in reference to what I was talking to. As far as me saying that you were once in the same position that these other young men are, I have noticed that often time, peeps in greek organizations don't care to realize that the peeps that may show interest in their org. are men also. And just as you are a man and want your respect- so do those that are interested. The 2 of you are men, you just take part in something that they wish to also. And if one of these peeps ( since you don't care for them being like your brother) asks you something that is too esoteric for you to answer, why not just tell them that you can't tell them anything more than what is on a website? All I am saying is that we as a people need to learn to be more uplifting and less down-trodden on eachother. Peace.
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