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Originally posted by JayBEE!!
There are a host of problems to dating inside the fraternity at the undergraduate level.
A.) Business conducted can be onesided.
B.) If half the chapter is dating, they might not want to do anything on campus. I have heard of that happening before.
C.) Also, I 've seen the the president and the treasurer leave with all the money.
D.) I've heard of males going through the organization, and at a meeting that causes a new stress factor, which is having to see that individual with another brother.
E.) These relationship can influence and create unfair decisions.
F.) You can waist your time with Disingenuous interest. They can be after an individual, but will not work for your chapter.
G.) Two dimensional thinking. Your president can be manipulated even before they make it to the meetings.
H.) The social org dating service appearance from the students on campus.
This is my opinion and things you have to consider
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Let me add
I.) Influencing Distraction. When occurances happen within the relationships, some people begin to schedule meetings and events where the other party as difficulty in attending.
J.) Dating Rules are adhered to. Rules can be created and because dating has happen in the past, or because that were thier first intentions in joing, you may not have anybody take them seriously, and you are left with circumstances beyond your control.
K.) Daters take the organization less seriously and more of a place to socialize.
L.) Pledges dating members can lead to hazing violations.
M.) The more your group appears as a dating service the more others will come just to date somebody, and not be serious about the fraternity. And when they fail to obtain their interest, they attempt to back out of their oath to the fraternity.
N.) Using the fraternity to hurt the individual that they broke up with.
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