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Originally posted by SMSUBear
Just out of curiosity, if a pledge decides not to join, but decides to at a later point in time, do you let them? Or what if they want to join another group, is that okay in the land of greeks?
I'm confused...
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Yes, you may join a GLO and cancel your membership at any time. If you were not initiated, you may join another GLO, or you may re-join the original GLO, if you have been offered a bid.
Just because you dropped out of one an uninitiated member doesn't mean you can't rejoin it, nor does it mean you can't join another.
And yes, there have been women who dropped ABC sorority as new members, and later came back and were offered a bid to ABC. Or were given a bid to XYZ.
And I know plenty of fraternity men who started off at one fraternity, dropped out, and joined another, or were given another shot at joining the one they dropped from. AND I know of fraternity new members who joined one fraternity, were blackballed and were given bids by other fraternities at the next recruitment.
However, if you dropped out of one/were blackballed from a fraternity, there may be some gossip, or another group might shun you. Ignore it and do what is right for you.
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