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Originally posted by OneOneTwo
I think I'm the only hater on here but oh well. But I'm just going to call it exactly what it is, some shullbit!
So what we are establishing by creating services like this is that a black man who is trying to make it by earning minimum wage is not good enough for the "professional" sistah. And if Ms. (I'm asumming that she is a woman but I really don't know) Nelson was so bright, she would know that there are quite a few "professional" brothers out there working pretty decent jobs without a college degree. I would name them all but I don't have the time or the patience and would probably still be doing research.
Oh I get it... she just assumed that the other men must be gay . Well damn, the truth is some of the guys who act feminine are the main ones answering booty calls at 12:00 in the afternoon . I know that I used to think at one point that all feminine dudes was gay and all that but I will just say that one of my sisters showed me otherwise and I will leave it at that. And on the same token, there are some women out their who unknowingly seek "gay" men... and men who are sleeping with "bi" or "lesbo" women.
It takes a strong man to come in and be a daddy to some kids that don't biologically belong to them. But it takes an mature woman to steer that man's children in the right direction.
Okay, I guess I understand that some women are just supper picky and all that... but damn... you can't have EVERYTHING... That could be why some "professional" women are lonely now, because they want too damn much. On that note, I'm a dip out because it is obvious that I won't be submitting to this service. Besides, I would rather have a REAL woman who can stand my faults and my weakness' than be around some paper made woman who wants a BARBIE Dreamhouse.
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I agree that the owner is making many assumptions like the fact that a man looks good on paper makes him a qualified candidate. We all know that that is not the case.
I also agree that many women are looking for a man with a college degree and would not look twice at a man with a good steady job, a good head on his shoulders, but no college degree. That may be to her detriment; it may not. It is really all up to woman as to what she defines as a dealbreaker.
Personally, I don't require a college degree. But I can't lie - I like the lookers (the really fine ones).

That is something that I recognize as a weakness and that I must work on. That sums it up, we have to look inside to determine what we need and what personal hang-ups that we need to move past. It's not about what your girlfriends will say or your family will say, it's about what you, as a woman, says is right for you.
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