We also have deferred recruitment, so we do similar events to coke dates. Our rules, however are far more lax. The rules go something like this- no drinking alcohol, even if it is one sister who is over 21 having one drink. That's about it. We can go wherever, and do anything at any time.
Some girls definately get promisory bids, but my house is very careful to not do that. Also, the PNM's know what a promisory bid is and that if they get one that it is NOT kosher. Trust your panhel, and remember to be classy!
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