How pushy is TOO pushy?

[Rudey]

Originally posted by CarolinaDG
Thanks for the advice...

I'm kind of concerned more because I have to let the manager at the job that I have been offered know if I accept. At how many weeks/months should I call it a no-go? Is it normal for 2 weeks to go by without a response, or is this a rejection?

Let me show you 3 possible situations:

They don't call you because you didn't get the job
= You, no job

You called and were too pushy and didn't get the job
= You, no job

You called and the lady remembered your name and you get called back
= You, maybe job.

Which situation did you want?

-Rudey