TIPS on SEEKING A GODLY MAN!!
Ladies: (Men you need to hear this too), I hear a lot of women
around my office talk about how they want and need a "Good" man.
However, I've notice that all the qualifications given for that so called
"Good" man almost never lines up with the qualifications God has for
"Godly" man.
Ladies take it from a Born Again married man, with a House and a car, a
son on the way, and a CALLING/Vision for His family and life, who was
unsaved at one time. There is a big difference between a Godly man and a
Good man.
1st) Unsaved ladies listen to this very very carefully!
***GOD IS NOT GOING TO SEND A GODLY MAN TO AN UNSAVED/MESS!!
Ladies please understand before you get the man of your dreams you're
going to have to "get Jesus". Spirits attract. If you're walking around
with the hem of your dress around your neck and all of your "stuff"
showing, you're going to attract a man with a mind "just
below his waist" wanting to look at all of your "stuff".
Don't get me wrong, Godliness is not what you wear but what you portray.
What are you portraying? How does God know you are ready for a Godly Man?
1. You are a Born Again Christian (John 3:3-7) and you're operating as
such.
2. You understand the word SUBMISSION. Ladies if you're not saved
operating under God's MISSION and submitting to his Word you're gonna have
a big problem submitting to a Godly man.
****AND YOU HAVE BEEN CALLED TO SUBMIT*****
Why?
Because if you're not in the Word for yourself, you won't understand that
God has called that man to love you the way Christ loves the Church and
gave himself for it. A woman who has a true understanding of this will
trust God to lead her through (THAT MAN) and not "the man".
And if he misses God, since you have placed your trust in God you know
through your prayers for your husband that God will direct him back to
where he should be.
3) Never forget that you are first called to be his HELP!
God took one look at the MAN and said, "this man needs some help." Ladies
all the help that your man will ever need is in you. So stop being &
feeling so inferior and insecure!! In order for you to be HELP God had to
equip you with every anointing you might need for that man. (CHECK OUT
PROVERBS 31:10-31)
Your home comes first!
MEN remember your WIFE "(H)as (E)fficient (L)atitude to (P)rovide" 'HELP!'
Men make no mistake, she is the difference between you being the fool of
the house or being the "head of the house". Use your help and value her
God inspired advice.
The saying is true, "Behind a SAVED, HEAD, ANOINTED SUCCESSFUL HUSBAND is
a SAVED, SUBMITTED, WOMAN OF GOD. His HELP!
4) Ladies that man needs to be able to provide for you. I'll say it
again!
Ladies that man needs to be able to provide for you!!! If he is UNSAVED,
BROKE, BUSTED, AND DISGUSTED, (H*I*N*T!!!!!) He's NOT A CANDIDATE for
marriage!!! Too many of you all are willing to just settle! Remember that
man has been called by God to be the PRIEST of HIS HOUSEHOLD (Loving his
Wife and Family and leading them in the Word of God), and to pay the
bills, I SAID TO PAY THE BILLS!!!
Ladies if he doesn't know God, he doesn't know how to lead and to be a
priest and he won't know how to lead YOU! Also, if you have children
already, he should be coming to you with a house that has enough bedrooms
for you and yours! If not stop!! You need a roof and it needs to be a
condition for marriage! You need a car to get back and forth to church
also. You can ride the bus by yourself. Most of all ladies submit to
God. I'm tired of hearing there aren't any men out there. Why? Because,
I'm a SAVED, Godly Priest of my household man. But I'll tell you this;
God didn't send me to any mess. Be Blessed!
I would like to add a quote from the book, T.D. Jakes Speaks To Women!
"Often, unmarried women complain of their need for a husband. But rarely
does a single woman boast about the kind of relationship she is free to
build with the Lord. So before you ask God again for a man, take care of
Him."
"When you flee temptation, be sure you don't leave a forwarding address."
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