i don't think what she did was wrong- considering that it was in the precence of the campus police... i think that it might of been a little overboard- but i know people that have done things a lot worse and they
were hazing.... i think her joke was in fun...
we've loosened up pledges by just taking them to one of our houses or the house and watched movies- hung out- gone out and gotten stuff to eat with a big group of us- we had our 75th birthdya party in october and all of us were freaking out b/c like 500 alumni were there- after it was over we all went to my best friends house- climbed into any available beds and couches and passed out for a good 3 hours- that was some good therapy and then we got ice cream and junk food and pigged out- the pledges weren't just pledges- they were becoming sisters- that was a great afternoon