Active Alumnae Question

HEY GIRLS!!! I've missed everyone soo much. I just felt like I was at home as soon as I logged on... However, I'm going through some stuff and I guess a big part of it is not being in school anymore. I'm officially an alum and it kinda sucks. I feel like a senior citizen. I have to call b4 I show up to events and other alumi seem to just fall off the face of the earth b/c they are so caught up with their lives. and I want to join an alumi association, but I don't think that It will be the same... I just don't know what to do. I don't want to fall out of touch with my chapter ( if i can still call it that). I know my Chpter sisters would never tell me that I'm not wanted but, i somehow feel like i don't belong anymore... I'm tryin to find my niche but I don't know where to look..Somebody help...