Marrying? Ack what's the hurry with that these days!
Ok well, my thoughts after your posts are that it's not it where you meet the guys that's the problem per se. One thing people tend to do is put lots of effort into meeting people in a very small amount of places and then lament how they never meet anyone. So they'll go to bars and a gym for example. Another thing to bear in mind - like the film
Coming to America said is that people you meet in bars or clubs are less likely to have gone there in search of a long term partner or be open to doing so. Also, it's been discussed here before (on the HBGLO forums as I recall) that many people at college tend to date less and it is a hookup or short term relationship culture. Which, isn't what you want to hear but I mention along the way to convey your experience isn't unusual and you're not an odd one out.
One thing to focus on is to widen the
type of places you go to - going to Chabad is a good step (thanks to GC I now know what it is! :->) in that direction. Though it sounds patronising try to concentrate on enjoying the things you do rather than working to find a relationship in these places: people are attracted to people having a good time. You come across as really pleasant on the boards at least so I'm sure you'll do well.
So er yes, suggestions. Well don't be afraid of going to lots of places - gym, Publik
, curricular/extracurricular college stuff (when yr back I guess), Chabad etc. The issue of only seeing yourself with a Jewish person is a whole other thread but also remember you might meet someone really great who's disabled in the fact they aren't Jewish
. But they might be able to introduce you to someone who is.
at the fact single guys go into the lingerie store to perv on the sales assistants.
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