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Originally posted by BROOKE
SmartBlonde-
Thanks, I guess it did kind of come off that I wanted to "tell them what to say" but that's not the case! Opps!! I just thought if I had some ideas/thoughts, I would better understand the "process" Thanks for the advise. I am sure they will do great! They are a big part of my "family" and they know me well!
Thanks again!
Brooke
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Ok, that makes more sense.
I would really say though that the only ones who could help on the process, would be that GLO/chapter. Gamma Phi Beta has a process for AI, but alumnae chapters have the last word on how they do it. As an example, for the last one my chapter had when I was still President, I didn't ask for references but I did email the chapter members who I knew had met the woman and asked for their opinions on her. But she was also a friend of two of our members.
But, if I was asking for the references I would want to know if/how they thought you could help fulfill our ideals or our mission. I'd also ask how they thought you would contribute to the group.
Hopefully that helps a bit more.......
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