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well last year i cohabbed with my boyfriend of two years because we wanted to see whether we were ready to take that next step: engagement and then marriage.
we lasted 10 months and then i moved out and back home with my family. i can't say that cohabbing was to blame, we had other issues that we should have dealt with before we even moved in together. i guess we thought that moving in together would solve all the other serious problems. needless to say, we're not together anymore. but would i move in with another man whom i thought i wanted to spend the rest of my life with, yes. i would just think hard and honestly before i did it again.
not to scare anyone away from cohabbing, i have to say that my friend from work moved in with her boyfriend of five years and though they have spats, they just got engaged over the christmas holiday. so cohabbing can work. good luck!
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