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Originally posted by blackerican
Being married myself I must post something. My husband has female friends that he had before we married and one that he met after we were married. I feel that any FRIEND OF MY HUSBAND IS A FRIEND OF MINE TOO!!!!!!! These friends also know their "place" in the grand scheme of his life. If I'm not familiar with a certain woman that my husband might know...then he & I talk about the situation. And one of two things happens...either they are introduced to me and we become friends (when I say "friends" I mean that they might call once and a while and do lunch or something) or they get ghost!!!!!! My husband and I have always communicated about everything and whenever one of us feels a certain way we resolve the situation right away!!!!!!
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Girl I am not even married and I hear you loud and clear on the above statement. My cousin got married 4 years ago and his best man was a Woman. This girl has been close with my cousin since they were six. My cousin's wife can't accept the relationship because she is beautiful for one and for two they spend soooo much time together it really is a shame. But that his how they have been for as long as I can remember. She did express her feelings for my cousin years back and he simply told her that she was the sister he never had and he would never but their relationship in harms way. And from what I can see, she took what he said and has never crossed that line ever again.
If it were me.. I would pray that the feelings be taken away and I would distance myself, but not totally remove myself.
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