I think it depends on the dynamics of the relationship...
1. if you are dating, you may be in the early stage of what you think is love and decide that you want to be with someone else instead.
2. However, if you are married, there is no excuse to cheat and it means that you are completely betraying the love, trust, and commitment that your relationship stands for. You have pledged your life and love to your spouse. So, there is no room for random bouts of lust that cause you to cheat. Lonliness is not an excuse. You knew that woman/man worked a lot before you got married.
I don't condone cheating in dating relationships. I just think that it is the examination part of the relationship process, and if you cheat, you fail and the love must not have been real. Otherwise, you wouldn't find it acceptable to hurt me that way.
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