Another Sex & marriage question

[CrimsonTide4]

Originally posted by Eclipse
Where's my girl Shalom2U when I need her???

I was thinking the same thing.
Oh Shalom

[korkscru]

Eclipse, Sisterfriend, you said a mouth full. And as far as not being a "Bible scholar" goes, I feel that you have a better insight about this than a lot of proclaimed "Bible scholars" have. I'm happy to see that God is revealing things to you (I'm going through something very similar).

[Reds6]

I haven't had a chance to respond because I have been out of work with the flu. (Cough Cough!). I read the responses and I agree with what everyone said, but why did everyone assume it was only the woman that had to submit sexually. It was meant that both partners had this obligation to each other.

[Three_Love]

Originally posted by Reds6
but why did everyone assume it was only the woman that had to submit sexually. It was meant that both partners had this obligation to each other.

I'm kinda feelin you on this Reds6, because as I read the posts, I just kept thinking that I'd be mad as H-E-DOUBLE HOCKEY STICKS if my husband tried to "catch a headache" on me...mad and SUSPICIOUS!!

But hey, that's just me

[Eclipse]

Originally posted by Reds6
I haven't had a chance to respond because I have been out of work with the flu. (Cough Cough!). I read the responses and I agree with what everyone said, but why did everyone assume it was only the woman that had to submit sexually. It was meant that both partners had this obligation to each other.

I hope you are feeling better Reds6!! You are sooooo right though. I guess I was thinking about my own situation 'cause my husband is always, as he puts it, on "R" (for ready)! LOL

[snuggles12]

Originally posted by Reds6
I haven't had a chance to respond because I have been out of work with the flu. (Cough Cough!). I read the responses and I agree with what everyone said, but why did everyone assume it was only the woman that had to submit sexually. It was meant that both partners had this obligation to each other.

You are right. There is mutual submission between husband and wife. I think the marital relationship of mutual submission reflects the relationship of God, His Son and Holy Spirit.

[thesweetestone]

I DON'T CARE WHO I MARRY MY BODY BELONGS TO ME. IF I SAY NO, I MEAN NO! AND HE BETTER ACCEPT IT.

[SummerChild]

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[Love_Spell_6]

Before I answer...I am NOT married yet......

I don't believe that you MUST have sex with your husband if you don't want to...if its to the point of rape of course.....HOWEVER....I do believe that a woman should not withold sex from her husband just because she's mad, trying to get back at him, or just holding out because she wants her way.....
Hey you can if you want to.....but don't be surprised if he starts tipping out.... I dont believe in 50/50 I believe in giving 100%.... and sometimes you gotta do what you don't want to do....to make someone else happy...

Thats just my SINGLE 6 cents