Around the Block Twice

[MareImbrium]

I thought most people rather not know how many people you've slept with.

[Kristin AGD]

I am not sure what number would disturb me. I guess as long as he hasn't been out there competing with Wilt Chamberlain I can get over it.
One thing I know for sure... My number will always be less than his number. In my experience guys just can't seem to handle it when my number was greater than theirs. None ever said anything out right, but the guys with less experience than I became slightly insecure. And I can't stand that. I would rather tell a little white lie.

[cashmoney]

Originally posted by Kristin AGD
I am not sure what number would disturb me. I guess as long as he hasn't been out there competing with Wilt Chamberlain I can get over it.
One thing I know for sure... My number will always be less than his number. In my experience guys just can't seem to handle it when my number was greater than theirs. None ever said anything out right, but the guys with less experience than I became slightly insecure. And I can't stand that. I would rather tell a little white lie.

I love meeting girls whos number is higher than mine. It kind of turns me on, all it means is I don't have to teach her anything. Thats one of the reasons why I'm turned on by chicks in their 30s.

[damasa]

Originally posted by AXJules
And Jules' .02 is....

As long as the person is getting tested regularly (and you're in it for sex/fun) it doesn't matter. You can sleep with one person and get HIV, and you can bang the entire block and never get an STD. If they are healthy, and you are healthy, and you're doin it, great.

This number matters to me if I'm interested in the person as someone to date (which is basically all the time- I won't sleep w/someone I'm not dating, hence my odd-defying low number.) If they have had 30 partners and they're 21....ok then I'd want to know- were some girlfriends?? All? None?? This is either a guy who lost his virginity early, has been in quite a few relationships but hasn't found the right girl, is a male slut, or treats girls like shit. Or a combination of all of the above. My point is, there are reasons behind the numbers. Depending on what you want the partner for, you may or may not need to know.

That's hot.

We should bang *again* haha.

Blaine

[XOAlumXO]

I wouldn't want to be w/ someone who has slept with that many people! I am very old fashioned and view sex as something to be shared w/ a person you're in love with, so I'd want to be with a guy who thought the same thing.

[smiley21]

my bf's sex history freaks me out a little. it was back when he was wild and crazy so i forgive him for it just as long as all of his current attention is on me, then it is alright.

If a girl or guy goes around advertising that "I'm X years old and I've slept with X number of people," then I'd stay away.

If a person takes all the necessary precautions to be as safe as possible, then number doesn't really matter to me and I prefer not to know. As with all my ex BFs and guys I seriously date, I prefer not to know and I expect the same treatment of me from them.

[absolutuscchick]

I'd rather not know his number. It doesn't really matter to me, as long as he is disease free, very committed to me, and treats me right.

[AXJules]

Originally posted by damasa
That's hot.

We should bang *again* haha.

Blaine

LMAO what experience do you think I used to support the theory about whoring around and staying clean??

Oh wait, we were *dating*.





*If the term 'dating' is used in a sickeningly platonic, involved in other relationships, WE NEVER DATED, he's my brother- kind of way

[GeekyPenguin]

Originally posted by AXJules
LMAO what experience do you think I used to support the theory about whoring around and staying clean??

Oh wait, we were *dating*.





*If the term 'dating' is used in a sickeningly platonic, involved in other relationships, WE NEVER DATED, he's my brother- kind of way

They had sex in the bathroom at Maggianos. I was in the next stall.

[winnieb]

I have always heard if you want to know the true number of partners a person has had--- apply the following fomula...

for men the number they tell you divided by 4.
for woman the number they tell you multiplied by 4.

-wendi

[James]

some of us guys don't kiss and tell so beware . . . I'm a virgin still

Originally posted by alphagam-alum
I have always heard if you want to know the true number of partners a person has had--- apply the following fomula...

for men the number they tell you divided by 4.
for woman the number they tell you multiplied by 4.

-wendi

[AlethiaSi]

I've been honest about my number before to my friends- they've been surprised- i haven't told anyone i've dated- i was dating one guy for a year on and off- his number i know is higher than mine- but he knows i'm definatley in competition( we have some mutual friends) but otherwise it hasn't come up.... if a guy asked me that i was interested in.... i'd prob keep it under 10 though..... i'm in college- who else needs to know except me? (and i'm tested and eveyrthing is fine) i used to get intimidated by guys that had a higher number- the guy i lost my viriginity to told me that he slept with 6- so for some reason i felt like i had to "beat" him and then the next guy i dated- same thing... it was something psychological i guess- i had to feel equal- however- looking back on it- this was pretty stupid....

[AXJules]

Originally posted by GeekyPenguin
They had sex in the bathroom at Maggianos. I was in the next stall.

What are you talking about, crazy?? It was the three of us, on the table, rolling around in the eggplant parmigiana...until that hot waiter joined in.

Don't act all innocent, now.....

[GeekyPenguin]

Originally posted by AXJules
What are you talking about, crazy?? It was the three of us, on the table, rolling around in the eggplant parmigiana...until that hot waiter joined in.

Don't act all innocent, now.....

Well yeah, after I complained about getting left out in the bathroom.