Ok your new love interest has a ready made family . . . now what?

[Taualumna]

Originally posted by James
Ok so what is your approach to dating someone with a kid(s)?

Let me give you two scenarios:

1. You see someone you are interested in that is also interested in you and pursuing . . . you find out they have a kid . . . what are you thinking? Do you give them a shot or eliminate them early?


2. You got to know someone and really like them . . they really like you . . . and then you find out baout the kid thing . . but you already really like them . . what do you do?

Right now, I'd say no to both situations. However, if this situation came up when I'm, say, 35 or over, then I may think otherwise.