My gilfriend of 2 1/2 years recently broke up with me, long distance as well. Sounds like the 2 of you need to work on your listening conversations to get all your feelings out. Maybe if he understood how you felt instead of bitching at you and arguing about every point, you'd be able to find out what the real problem is and work it out with him. Either way, one of you must move close to the other, it's inevitable if you want this to be a lasting relationship.
Do you miss him, or is it the fact you had someone in your life? I'm sure things are different for guys and girls, but to me this doesn't sound like a match made in heaven. Maybe you guys have a long history that I don't know. I wouldn't let it go, I would get some closure on this by expressing how you feel to him and then let him make the next move. Whatever happens, you should not waste your time aching over a relationship that ended in October.
Just my thoughts,
- RUgreek
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