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I just want to echo FAB's advice!! I've definitely been there done that as well, I'd hook up with him all the time, he would make promises to me that we were going to go out and stand me up, make more plans then not answer his phone when I called. It became a huge game with him. He'd say how cute we were together, how much he cared about me, do sweet things for me, then he would ignore me. Even after I moved back to az, the games continued, I'd go out to LA, he'd be sweet, buy me dinner, I'd hook up with him, then he wouldn't answer his phone. But he'd call me drunk a week later. All I have to say is really, really be careful. Hooking up with someone repeatedly who doesnt really truly care all about you (even though he may act like it sometimes) can really hurt because even as much as you don't want to, you develop a bond together, get used to being able to hook up with him, and it feels normal. And I really start to care about him because of ALL THE TIME we've spent together. I know you don't think it's going to happen to you, but BE CAREFUL!!!! Even when you don't think you care, you often, subconciouslly, do care. If you have any doubts, do yourself a huge favor and STOP!! My head is still spinning from all the deceit and confusion, and although I know it's going to hurt me soooo much, next time I go back to cali, there's a definite chance that I'm going to be hooking up with him again (hopefully my friends won't let me!)
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