James seriously please stop posting like Decadence.  

 I did a speed read of that and got a couple things.  
I think I hold doors just as much for guys as I do girls, old women as young.  If my buddy calls me, I will call him back.  It's just common decency and not things you do exclusively for girls.  The first second you give or get more in a relationship than the other person, it's downhill.  
-Rudey
--Most "nice guys" are self-labeled.  Ever notice that?