Advice

[James]

A word of caution: The "meant to be" excuse is what we usually say to make ourselves feel better after we screw up.

Guys can be kind of weird. Like your constant arguing was probably bothering him for a while, getting worse and worse with him not saying anything until honestly, just the thought of talking to you made him uncomfortable.

Its an unconscious thing.

You have to make him like you again. Seduce him. And whats going to be really hard is that you have created a pattern of arguing for both of you.

ITs like having a bruise, when you touch it hurts more than a normal touch would.

Every time you fight with him inthe future it will seem like 10 fights to him.

Think of it as a Emotional Bank Account: You have made withdrawals everytime you fought. Now you have to make deposits by being cool, nice, and sexy.

Are you sure you still want to be with him? And that the real issue is that you don't want to be alone?