Cheating Husband???

[winnieb]

Originally posted by James
Unless your hubby knows and just never mentioned it? There is a guy code sometimes .. .

Yes, I am aware of the guy code.... but my husband and I have had numerous arguments over the computer. I have repeatedly told him I don't care if he is looking at porn (really i don't care, i probably look at more porn than most). But I told him he needs to be careful with what is getting downloaded and the sites that are being looked at. He tells me it is not him--and a loud argument begins.
So while guy code is always present, I am confident that my husband won't take the blame and listen to me bitch when he knows the neighbor is the real problem.

And I just talked to my hubby. He was very laid back abut the whole thing. After me explaining why it bothered me. He said he would talk to the neighbor tomorrow, which I don't want. I know, at this point, it will all get blamed on me. So, we decided to give it 2-3 weeks, monitor the chat recorders and the keyloggers, after we have some evidence we will change the garage door code, etc.

I am hoping my husband does not say anything to them until I can get some dirt on him.

-wendi