I guess it matters how important romance is to you. I knew that it was very important to me--I always saw my parents as very affectionate towards eachother, and that's been my model. I couldn't imagine going from a family where everyone was loved and knew they were loved to one where it wasn't a priority. Fortunately, I found someone who feels the same way that I do.
One thing that I've always heeded was: if you don't like something about your significant other before you're married, you surely won't like it after marriage.
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