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				Originally posted by aephi alum  
I don't know, DeltAlum - I still think there's a need for discussion of how you think and hope your future together will shape up.
			
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 Oh, I agree.  I didnt' want my comments to be longer than they alredy were.
Of course some or all of the other things listed can be helpful -- but without the commitment I talked about they aren't enough.
Obviously, you can't go into a marriage with no preparation or understanding each other or things in common.  It's just that those things alone often aren't enough.
At least I don't think they are.