Too Much Baggage?!

[delph998]

Originally posted by Lizanabavi
I've been down this road before, and if you don't take heed to the "flags" that God has allowed you to see -You will have nothing but heartache.

Are you prepared to deal with a woman who may still have feelings for him?

Women(and Men) are territorial, and you'd be amazed at how they will act once they feel like they've 'lost' that person. As long as this man is by himself and not dating anyone, it's all good. But if they see you two together. DRAMA!!!

This man still has feelings for his Ex-wife, no matter what he may tell you. His actions are speaking louder; he came to church with the woman!!! When you are truly over someone, you don't do stuff like that.

He also has an inflated ego: Men have to feel like they're needed; and by him having problems with his ex-wife making more money than him, that contributed to their demise.

Delph998, if you hook up with this man, you will be unequally yoked, and have nothing but problems. Be patient... and pray that God will bless you with someone who is more on your level.

Wow! It's amazing to hear someone say the total opposite of what everybody else has said. Firstly, he came to church with the girl BEFORE they married each other. So it wasn't like they came to church after marriage. When they divorced, she moved to a different state. MORE INFORMATION: Well, I found out some interesting information this weekend that will respond to what you said about him still having feelings for the wife that he came to church with. He told me this weekend that he was soooo unsure about marrying this girl that he called the church to meet with the Pastor. Ummm, I don't know, but that says a lot to me.

I have concluded that I will give him an opportunity to win my heart. I talked to my parents about it (we're very close-knit) and my daddy pretty much said that people make mistakes. We'll see what happens. To be continued...

Tony, you crack me up!