Having been on both sides of the table. I sort of know what the sisterfriends are feeling and how the members are feeling.
When I first came to GC. I wanted to know the ins and outs of AKA since this was the AKA message board. I thought I could click on a topic and bam there's my answer. Because on my campus you couldn't and didn't find out anything. Sisterfriends can't or won't seek info at their school, so they venture here wanting info and details down to the tee. Some get disappointed, frustrated, fiesty, rude, cocky and just down right UGLY when they don't get what they were looking for. They don't realize that their UGLY attitude won't get them no where on GC and on their campus. Why? Because only the PRETTY GIRLS WEAR 20 PEARLS.
Now being a member I understand why little info is given. Because it's not for everyone to know. Not everyone will become an AKA, so outsiders shouldn't have access to our info.
The sorors on GC give out more info than you know. Frankly we don't have to. Therefore, everyone should be grateful with what they get. Because it's better than nothing.
Why can't we give out explicit details and info to everyone? Here are 2 reasons out of the many.
1) There are so many chapters of AKA. Each chapter does things differently. If we were to give out info, it wouldn't be continuous across the board.
2) One cannot know the secrets of the FBI unless s(he) is an FBI agent.
One cannot know the secrets behind magic unless s(he) is a magician.
Therefore, one cannot know the secrets of ALPHA KAPPA ALPHA SORORITY INCORPORATED unless she is an AKA.
Lastly to Ms_Thang24. I see you have learned your first lesson in being humble and respectful by apologizing. It takes a lot to realize when one is wrong and try to correct their errors. I only wish that other SF's would do the same.
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