I married the first time @ 21, right out of college. My first husband was very charming, out-going, easy-going. He had no problems with my girlfriends. My single girlfriends had no problem with me being married. I had 2 that were jealous, very jealous, but didn't realize it until I was getting divorced. Second husband, very stand-offish. Wants me to be totally under him, at 36, I'm not having it. I'm grown, independent, enjoy alone time as well as time with friends. In this time most of my friends have been married, divorced, cohabitating, etc. We still cool. Only 1 or 2 act shady when they get a man. but they don't usually keep them long. LOL.
I agree with the sisterfriend concerning children. I have no children. I like kids, but don't want to be around them if I'm hanging with a girlfriend. So that cuts down on alot of time spent with girlfriends.
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