I don't know about the rest of you guys, but, in my heart, I still long for the romantic, sweep-you-off-your-feet approach. Whether I am being idealistic or not remains to be seen!
Seriously, I think men and women should do whatever works for them. However, I also feel that men have a strong "hunt" mentality that is deeply rooted and exhibited on many levels in their daily lives. I think brothers have a need to feel like they started the "hunt," went in for the kill and pounced on the prey... even if the prey is little more than a pretty woman's number!
It makes them feel manly. Now, what they don't realize is that we sistahs STILL run things! We just so happen to bat our eyes, switch those hips and slow down to allow the predators "catch" us.
*sigh* I would love to be "caught," but I haven't met a predator worth slowing down for in a lonnnnnnnnnnnnng time....
Oh well!
Something about ol' fashioned courtin'...
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