Poll: In the game of love...

[TonyB06]

Lawyergal wrote:
...a man told me something one day that changed my behavior.... He was a friend of a friend ... a/w he said that when women approached him he was faltered however he never took them as seriously as he took the women he approached b/c he felt in the back of his mind that if she approached him that way then she would/could easily approach any man that way and that's not the kind of woman he would really want....

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I think the question of "who should approach?" is a matter of personal taste. As a man, I'm accustomed to making my interest known, in a respectful way of course. I've had interest expressed to me, and have to admit it threw me, but only for a minute.

I think if the woman expressed interest in a classy, yet discreet, dignified sort of way, it would definitely pique my interest, that is assuming I was feeling something back for her as well.