Soror Ideal, I agree with you on some respects with the sales are final, but what if the man you marry becomes impotent where not even Viagra is gonna work? Just asking...
IMHO, if a "chile" is young: teenage, 18ish or barely 22ish, in this day and age, they need to slow down or hold off on the sexcapes. There is no need to rush into broken hearts, useless pain and mindless pleasure. I only know this because been there, done that... Had to learn my lesson and it's a bitter pill to swallow where I am paying for it til this day! God still loves me as his child, prodigal, but still his child and blesses me everyday by his forgiveness he has shown me. However, when I made the mistake that I made at a young age, God kept telling me to stop, but I wasn't hearing Him...
Today, I've live to learn with it. Know that I'm not the only one that went thru what I have endured in my life. What did Sarah say when God said she will be with child at a late age? Who was the mother of John the Baptist? Moreover, what did Mary Magdelene do before Christ entered her heart... So, Christ has paid our ransome from sin... He's the pen-ultimate stain remover...