Honey, I hope that you at least continue through until the end of recruitment, even if you ultimately decide not to join a group. The reason that I say this is that one round is not always enough to tell whether or not a sorority is right for you. After the first round of recruitment, Tri Delta was not in my top three. To tell you the truth, it may not have even been in the top five (out of eleven groups) -- I can't remember for sure. But when I went back for round two, I liked them a lot more than I had the first round, and by Pref I knew I was home. The problem was that round one is skit night, and our chapter is just not that great at skits -- but we can put together a knock-your-socks-off heartfelt pref night. The girls you talked to at the sorority you didn't feel so comfortable at might have liked you, but they might just not be great at rushing, and it could take a while to get to know them better. You might love them during the next round.
Plus, you got two of the sororities you liked most . . . that's nothing to sneeze at.
Please don't take the cuts too seriously -- for all you know, they might have been mostly due to age. And that sucks, but we all know that it happens at many, many schools.
I'm glad you're sticking with it -- and anything could happen.
Hybrid Mode
