I believe that my mother said it best,"I will follow the man, but I am not going to follow a fool!" She wasn't saying this to say that my dad was fool, but God gave each of us, both women and men the intelligence to make decisions. Now in my family, my mother makes the money decisions and my father follows. It is all about finding out what your strengths and weakness are and allowing your mate to take the lead on things that they are more suited to.
I know that from my past relationships, there have been areas that I was not the expert in. I will always submit to the will of my lady, especailly if I know that she has our common interest in mind.
Like I said, both parties should sumbit to the other based on personal strengths and weakness.
I personally will not have submit or obey in my vows because I tend to be more attracted to strong women.
MN
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