Well I think that as long as the members of the sorority of your interest know what YOUR deal is, it shouldnt matter what rumors say. Rumors will always be there because haters are there. So if you let your interest known to them in the 'right' way and present yourself respectfully the rumors shouldnt hurt you too much. But dont go to them and say "um in case you heard 'xyz' about me it's not true'.
Look at it this way... I assume current members who were sisterfriends before went to probates of other BGLOs. It's only natural as an interest to want to attend greek functions no matter the organization. Just as long as you weren't perpin', and you weren't attending an interest meeting of another organization.
hope I helped
nachural
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