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Originally posted by James
LOL. Cashmere, Munchkin and piep are right. You just don't want it to be true. Unless he is crippled in the hospital and unable to call you and his mouth doesn't work to tell someone else to call you then he is, simply put, not that into you.
I will go a step farther and say that he is also probably seeing someone else that he currently likes more than you. Because if he wasn't that into you but had no other distractions, he would still talk to you to arrange "weekend booty visits".
Also, unless he is in the hospital I wouldn't believe any story he gives you. The old ssaying: your actions speak so loudly I missed what you were saying, comes to mind.
I'll give you an easy way to think about lov and friendship. Instead of thinking of the words as Nouns, think of them as Verbs.
It doesn't matter what the person says, or what you think they are thinking, it matters what they are doing. If they love you their actions will show they love you all the time.
And sorry sweetie, but not talking to someone for a week is not acting like you love someone.
I don't understand what is so difficult about understanding that for people?
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It's not that easy though; It's not easy to think that maybe someone doesn't love you as much as you love them, and that you are not as huge of a priority as you want to think. I know where you're coming from and even though it is super hard, you CANNOT allow him to "get away" with not calling you for that long. Hear what he has to say when he finally calls you, but do not let him off the hook under any circumstances. It's super hard, but I know that you can do it!!!
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