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The first part of your situation described how you turned down a bid-no big deal. If you didn't feel you belonged there, you made the right choice. Then came this section...
The next opportunity for me was informal spring recruitment. Three houses were open, but I was only able to attend one because the times for activities conflicted with each other. My friend was in this house and informal rush lasted a few days. This was my 3rd rush and I did not get a bid.
I don't know the size of your campus, but I do know that if you have friends scattered about the different sororites, this COULD be a factor. I will assume that your campus does pledge Sophomores and Juniors, I will also assume your grades and activities are above average and your style is comely. If this does describe you, you may be giving the impression that you really don't have enough time to dedicate to the sorority. I'm not saying it's a factor, but it could be.
All the above advice is excelent. I do think (Who said it?) that you should let your intentions be known to your CLOSE friends. Do not go beyond that because you might appear "needy" when you should appear confident and present youself as an asset.
BEST OF LUCK!
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