Eclipse made some wonderful points..
We tend to give up very easily. Its always easier to give up than to stick in there and work it out. Swallow your pride. Get over it.
My advice.
-Pray.
-Talk to your spouse not at him/her
-Don't take each other for granted, no you are not 22 but you don't have to look like 92 either.
- I am a big Dr Phil fan, and he says to keep you self up, in other words if you are a stay at home mom, don't let your spouse see you in rollers and housecoat(yes housecoat), slippers...etc. Because he is going to work and believe me he will see all of the little hotties.
- date each other. We plan everything else in our lives, when to see this show, get your nails done, hang out wit the girls...so do the same for you spouse...treat them like a girlfriend/boyfriend.
---Most importantly keep people, especially family out of your business..everyone doesn't want to see you happy...and you all know that if you tell mom about a bad experience with your spouse, she will never forget about it and may never forgive or forget. Find A trusted friend and/or counselor ( I say counselor, but I was suprised how much my friends were for my keeping my marriage together when things were rocky for me)
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