Oohlala,
This has got to be the most exciting time of your life. Surely, you've been planning for some time now. Don't let your friend's fickleness affect what you are about to do. Commence forward with your planning and let your friend know that you love her, but because your own plans, you can't attend hers. I'm sure that she will understand.
Keep your focus where it belongs, on planning your wedding. Truly, that is more than enough. Perhaps she'll have several parties that you can attend or help coordinate as an expression of your love for her. I know that some people have a pre-wedding reception when they are getting married on the islands. The bridal shower may also be wonderful. Since she is also planning her own wedding, she should understand your decline.
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