For those of you with siblings...

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Originally posted by RHOyal-Silence
well i tried to get to know her. i invited her and my brother as well as my parents and grands to spend the weekend with me. this way we can hang out and get to know each other

i was very hospitable and my natural sweet self. but it seemed like nothing was good enough for her.

she wanted to go back home to her parents after just one night. she felt my brother wasn't paying enough attention to her.

now my brother and i have not seen each other in months. she sees him more than i do. (they live in different cities right now)

we invited her to go out shopping around town with the ladies while my dad and brother hung out. she said she did not like shopping and wanted to stay in the house.

later on that night she and my brother went out, she came back and began packing. they kept me up half the night arguing. she actually wanted to drive home at midnight ( a 2hr drive) because she wasn't 'comfortable'.

she was upset because SHE wanted to go to this church that she heard about instead of the church that i was a member of. no problem. she couldn't tell me where it was or what time service started.

i cooked breakfast on sunday. she didn't eat.
we came home from church. everyone was ok with a small snack from burger king or mc Donalds. not she. so i said ok.

we went to a place where there were small restaurants. not to her liking.

so i took them to the art museum for an exhibit of Story telling through Southern art. it was very interesting.
5 minutes into the tour, she was hungry and did not want to continue. she sat out and actually expected everyone else to stop the tour and go eat.

now i am just exhausted. i know she will become a part of my life now, but i really need prayer to deal with her. i want her to feel apart of my family but i don't want to pamper her like she is accustomed to.

that's enough venting for right now.

Sisterfriend,

What did your brother say about her behavior? Have you talked to him about it or is he blinded by LOVE.

Hang in there and of course we will pray for you.