Thanks 4 your reply, NUPE4LIFE. I'm actually going to talked to my uncle today, to see if he can arrive at an earlier date. Yes, I do realize that their is nothing I can do as a "mediator". And no, my family really doesn't know about his future plans but, my question about him loving this woman still remains. But I shall soon find out.
As far as the attitude of my family-CONSERVATIVE. Interracial dating is a no,no.
However, I do feel that I need to clear a few things up about you understanding my statement.
You stated,
"For you to assume that all black men date white women because they feel that black women are inadequate for whatever reason, is propersterous. Also, for you to suggest that your uncle is dating this white woman now because of status reason's is also wrong. Has he come out and said that now that he's making major figgas that a sista ain't good enough for him?"
Let me first say, I don't assume that all black men date white woman because they "are inadequate for whatever reason", YOU said that.
As you are aware, many black men, white women, and others of different ethnic backgrounds see the surge of black men dating white women a cause of the stereotypes I previously mentioned. And unfortunately, I have had one or two white woman tell me this. Or at least try to anyway.
Of course my view is oxymoronic-contradictory, acutely silly, and does not match, that was my first or second statement I made. But, I'm being honest and that is how I truly feel and regardless of how many black women deny it, I'm sure in some way they agree.
Anyhow, thanks for your opinion and don't think I haven't given your post serious thought.
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