Sorors and friends:
What would you do if your friend of 10, 15, 20 years came to you and told you they:
-had sex outside marriage, with more than one person
-got pregnant, had a baby and didn't marry the father
-smoked weed
-told lies
-cheated on their homework or an exam
-stole
-judged other people, as if they were not being judged by our Creator;
See where I'm going with this, folks? I think it's highly self righteous to say "I have issues with her homosexuality, but she's still my friend." Hell, I have issues with unmarried mothers, especially those trying to pledge my sorority, but doesn't that sound super judgemental? And isn't sex outside of marriage a sin? Whose going to hell first? No wonder we Christians have the reputation of being judgemental, holier-than-thou types, cuz it's true!
And yes, I have had this situation happen, actually with a soror I made.
Yall done got my pressure up with this one...
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