I truly feel for my Black sistas in search of a meaningful relationship, much less marriage. The deck is truly stacked against you. I never use such weak platitudes such as "just pray about it". Its helpful, but not a satisfying answer. I have many unmarried male friends in their 30's, who are just playing the field with no intention of getting married. They are spoiled with options. My two unmarried sisters have had suitors, but none worth making a lifetime committment for. I'm afraid that they will always be unmarried and childless. Having said that, they are however, happy, content, professional women. My three brothers on the other hand were all married by 26 (and could have married any number of women). I don't believe any Black man that says that he cannot find a quality sister to marry by age 30. A professional, educated Black man with mediocre looks can find more than his share. I would advise any woman seeking marriage to take your time and don't push it. It will happen and come upon you when you're not looking. Take your time and yes, even pray, that someone is worthy to receive the love that only a Black woman can give. Ques have a heart too (never a soft side).
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