As a married woman, I cannot imagine what I would have done if my husband had asked me to sign a prenup. Not only, do I see that as a bad sign, but it lets me know where I stand as a priority to this man. In the unfortunate case we had to divorce, he would rather make sure that his money is safe than make sure that I am secure and can live on my own afterwards. I don't know of any court that would award spousal support to someone who makes more money than their partner. So, whoever is ordered to pay support, already makes more money than the other person. So, what's wrong with helping them get on their feet for a little bit afterwards? Divorce is a tough transition and if you ever loved that person, you should still care enough for them to understand that they need that kind of help.
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