PRE-NUPTIAL AGREEMENTS...YAY OR NAY?

[AKA2D '91]

Originally posted by royalpinkastry
I am not married but I do plan to get married with the person that I am seeing. We are both at a point in our lives where we are trying to please God, so in doing so, if it was the "will of God' for us to get married, meaning that we are "meant" to be together infinitely ('til death do us part') then no, I do not believe that we will need to sign a pre-nuptial agreement. As you stated there is a equal divide in everything once we stand before God, our families, our friends and each other, there is a commitment, a vow, a promise, a covenant that can only be broken through death. Marriage takes work, going in & maintaining! It is a ministry and can not be taken lightly!

How would I handle it if I was asked ~ first through prayer and submission. God is my first husband so I would ask him is something that he wants me to do, based on the answer given from him, is the answer that I will in turn give my husband, if we do make it down the aisle.

Side Journey ~ The whole topic of prenuptial agreements should come up before the question is asked or answered "will you marry me". Together, you have to prepare for marriage in the beginning so that walking down the aisle and making those vows won't be done with any animosity because one doesn't fully agree with signing a pre-nup.

Again...did we ever establish your membership? I guess it's safe to say you just had to have "pink" in your username.