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hmmm, interesting topic.
a few weeks ago a sister brought this up to me. Her chapter has been the largest it's been in several years adn she was commenting on how the bigger it got the more cliques seemed to come around (and techniquely this is a small chapter - around 20 members)
it's not that they all don't like each other, and they do hang out with each other, its just outside of phi sig stuff they seem to be more particular with which girls they hang out with...
well, for the most part, this type of clique-iness isn't so bad....we all have our natural affinities....but it turns out things go wrong when one sister disappoints the rest....i think that's all i'll say about that....
there is no way to rid a chapter, or any org, of all cliques...it's just natural behaviour. All we can do is keep having sisterhood socials and hope that the women understand that we are all sisters and we all deserve the same respect and attention.
i'm not really good at this kind of thing....i was never really cliquey...
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