nose piercing?

[pialpha92]

I think if she is worried about it she needs to take it out. Otherwise she may end up spending her parties self-conscious and worried about it. There is enough stress in formal without stressing about something she can easily remove.

You can always start the parties without it and as recruitment progresses you can put it in for parties later in the week. By then they should know you well enough and you will probably feel more comfortable about it.