I guess it is the mentality, personality and maturing of the people you (NOT YOU PER SE) date. The saying is if you lie down with dogs you will get flees, or at least you are
bound to catch something. So, again I don’t see the problem ... if you and your mate have open, honest communication then problems like this should not occur. And I am not trying to put the fault all on the women; but if the woman felt comfortable with the man
and if the relationship is serious or moving towards serious then one should not be afraid
to question the man, his values and his morals ... I see why it is a problem, with the mentality of some, but I still think it can be prevented. Now if you keep running into the same type of people/guys then maybe there is a different problem.
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