Eclipse, I hear you on that one girl! I think God is teaching me that little by little through the years. When I was younger, I had a whole list of what my Mr. Right should look like, what he would drive, the kind of clothes he would wear (an actual list!), but as the years go by I realize that the quality of man is oh so much more important than what he looks like or what he drives, etc. Each time I look at that list, I cross something off. You know what the list has on it now? It consist of one line;8 words: A good man that's gonna treat me right! I'm a fool no longer!!